You should be PROUD of all the hard work you do. I have seen so many people be so negative towards others. I have seen so many negative comment on photos of women who are very fit. Comments like: She must not eat, that's gross, she must not be happy with herself etc. I see a photo of a fit guy or girl and think "Wow, that is some major dedication right there" I just don't understand all the hate?? I don't think it "bragging" to say you are proud of yourself. You worked freaking hard and should be proud. I have seen comments before where people get sick of others posting how they went to the gym for the hundredth time. For me I think that is AWESOME. Why not support people doing something healthy, something they love etc??
I don't know, maybe I am just different, but I am proud of everything I have done. I have given up a lot to be were I am today and I feel amazing. I have no idea if I have any haters and hope I don't.
Always remember to be proud. You did all this hard work. No one else but you. BE PROUD!!!!
I was thinking about this exact same topic the other day. Like you, when I see a picture of a fit man or woman I think to myself, wow! Talk about dedication! Then I want to be like them. haha I never think that they need to go and stuff themselves with junk food. They are happy where they are at so we all should be too. When someone is happy with themselves, the last thing we should do is put them down. This can cause some serious damage. The heavier girl could turn anorexic or bullemic and the fit girl could second guess herself and stop doing what she's been doing. It makes me sad to see others put people down for one's hard work, determination, motivation, and dedication.
ReplyDeleteIt makes me so sad and angry at the same time. People can be way to negative:( I have seen it a lot lately.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately, we live in a World where everyone communicates via text, email, Facebook etc. Because of that, people say things that they normally wouldn't say, to your face. I think it's great what you are doing and everyone has their own goals they work towards. It's important to note, that not everyone thinks a seriously buff chick is hot and sexy. Take my hubby, for example. Every time he see's one of your buff chick girl pictures, with all the muscles, he say's "eeewww." He doesn't like that look on a woman, whatsoever. I don't like that look on a guy, either. Beauty comes in many shapes and sizes. I, personally, think that women who have curves and are a little bigger are sexy as heck. But, whatever one's preference, or goals, it shouldn't give people a reason, or right, to bash that person. People don't need to add negativity to the world. If they don't have something nice to easy, they shouldn't say it. Any ways, my comment comes down to my point that is beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Not everyone is going to like the same look, but regardless, people need to be respectful and supportive. Just my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteI agree Tristen. No matter what shape or size, beauty is within. It's a shame that people have to judge instead of being supportavie.
ReplyDelete